Affordable dating.
No hookups.
Finally, matching on personality!
AceSpace is a free and open social network designed for those that seek romantic attraction, not sexual attraction.
Filter by sex and romance aversion. Everyone on the asexuality spectrum is welcome, friends and QPRs too.
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Designed for everyone on the asexuality spectrum
- Asexual.
- Aromantic.
- Aceflux.
- Aegosexual.
- Demisexual.
- Gray-asexual.
- And more.
Welcome to AceSpace, the fresh, no-nonsense, grassroots social network that has arrived to rescue the asexual community from online dating despair.
Search for only people you are interested in
AceSpace is the only website that allows you to find and filter people based on the level of sex and romance aversion that you have, giving you full freedom of the people who you meet and who you start conversations with.
You don't have to connect with people that have different philosophies on sex and romance that you do.
- Repulsed (selected)
- Averse (selected)
- Indifferent
- Favorable
- Desired
- Repulsed
- Averse
- Indifferent (selected)
- Favorable (selected)
- Desired (selected)
Every profile sits somewhere on these two scales, or on "Prefer not to say". AceSpace is for all individuals across the asexuality spectrum, not only sex repulsed people.
Find friends and platonic relationships too!
A lot of people use AceSpace for dating, but you can find friends too!
- Make it clear on your profile that you are only looking for friends
- Connect with people and share posts on the news feed
- Find people near to you based on your chosen location
- Easily find people with similar interests to you
It really is free to use, you know?
It's free to join, create a profile and it's free to find people too!
In fact, it's got one of the most generous free tiers on any dating website ever.
- Message people
- Free
- Filter results to find who you're looking for
- Free
- See who likes you
- Free
- See your matches
- Free
- Send photos in your chats
- Free
- Post on the News Feed
- Free
- Join community spaces
- Free
- Use the iPhone and Android apps
- Free
We sustain our monthly costs through AceSpace Premium, an optional subscription with a few extra perks such as colorful profiles and voice notes.
Join AceSpace for FREEAnd we don't sell your data.
Unlike almost every other dating site we absolutely do not sell out any user data and we never will.
By default all user profiles are private and only visible to other users. However you can set your profile to be public so that you can share it with anyone!
Frequently asked questions
What is the purpose of this site?
AceSpace aims to create a supportive community for asexual and aromantic individuals to connect, whether it's for friendships, romantic relationships, or simply finding like-minded people who understand and respect asexuality.
Why does AceSpace exist when other asexual platforms exist?
This site was created out of a personal dissatisfaction with both mainstream dating and asexual dating platforms. Almost all asexual specific dating platforms require you to spend a great deal of money to either sign up to become a member, or to send a message or like someone else. AceSpace breaks away from this trend, allowing you to search for people, message people, like people and more without any cost.
Can I use AceSpace to make friends?
Absolutely! AceSpace is not just for romantic connections; it's a platform where you can build friendships, find like-minded individuals, and create meaningful connections.
Does the site support QPRs? (Queer Platonic Relationships)
Yes, AceSpace is inclusive and welcomes all types of connections, including Queer Platonic Relationships. Our goal is to provide a space for asexual and/or aromantic individuals to connect and build relationships.
Is there a minimum age to use the site?
Even though we do have strict rules against explicit content on the platform, all users still need to be at least 18 years old to join.
Will my profile be visible to the public?
By default all user profiles are private and only visible to other users. However you can set your profile to be public so that you can share it with anyone!
Is the site really free?
Yes, AceSpace is completely free to use and all main features are available free of charge. We sustain our monthly costs through AceSpace Premium, an optional subscription with a few extra perks such as colorful profiles and voice notes.
Do you sell user data?
Unlike almost every other dating site we absolutely do not sell out any user data and we never will.
Does AceSpace have a mobile app?
Yes! AceSpace has a mobile app for both iPhone and Android. You can download it from the App Store or Google Play.
Is AceSpace only for sex repulsed people?
No, AceSpace is for all individuals across the asexuality spectrum. However we understand this is a very broad category and that's why we provide with you with tools and filters (such as our sex/romance repulsion filters unique only to AceSpace) so that you can find someone that best suits you.
Wait! I have another question!
AceSpace has an active discord community where we're very active in talking and answering questions about the platform. You can also get in contact with us through our contact page.
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Success Stories
Take a look at what people online are saying about AceSpace. The users have been kept anonymous but this small collection of stories are all real.
“I just got engaged last week to the ace guy I first met on AceSpace. If you’re willing to put yourself out there, it can happen!!”
Reddit/r/asexualdating“Found someone on acespace and we are coming up on 3 years now. LDR so far, but at least we are within half a day's drive or a quick flight. Looking to move in together soon. We have the same interests and relationship goals. So it's possible, keep an eye out and don't be scared to message folks!”
Reddit/r/asexualdating“I met the love of my life on AceSpace!”
Reddit/r/Asexual“I met my boyfriend on Acespace. Best relationship I've ever been in.”
Reddit/r/asexuality“I personally found it a lovely community space, met some good friends and my soul mate on there”
Reddit/r/asexualdating“My girlfriend and I met on AceSpace, I was one person outside of three she messaged and was the only one to reply. Thankfully we got on really well and we're at 2 years now.”
Reddit/r/asexualdating“I met my partner on there, they were the first person I talked to, and the last! We've been happy together ever since.”
Reddit/r/asexuality“I actually managed to find the love of my life on Acespace.”
Reddit/r/asexualdating“not a question but i wanted to say that i met my boyfriend using your website almost a year ago and we're still going strong. so thank you for all your hard work!!”
Reddit/r/asexualdating“I met my best friend there and it was one of the best things that has happened to me :3”
Reddit/r/asexualitySo what are you waiting for?
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