sorry if all this writing is a mess and this will be edited a lot

Hello, my name is Adam and I’m a 22 year old asexual and possibly aromantic male from Australia and I’m an introvert so long distance is preferable until we get to know each other and then maybe one day we could meet up one day, i also don’t mind sending what we look like, I use Reddit and discord the most but I also use Instagram if that is better to talk but now since theres an app it makes all this so much easier to chat but i still rather we talk on discord, I also have visual dyslexia so i might take me a while to read, respond and there might be spelling mistakes a lot and sometimes i can comprehend stuff with what people say

I feel like I should make this clear, i am looking for a relationship but i doubt that will ever happen so I'm just looking for friends and you don't need to worry about me pursuing a relationship, I don't have enough courage to do that, I guess it happens naturally but anything can happen

if I like you its because you play video games and I don't expect you to like me back but if you do I will wait a while to see if you message me first but if you don't I'll message first because I understand people are afraid of sending messages first

My socials if you want to contact me there easily, its great that we get notifications here now but i still rather talk on discord, if you cant find me, tell me yours

Discord: .gargoyle18. best place to chat

Reddit: u/Adam__2003. this is where i post the most

Instagram: adamcooperklohs. I don't use it as much as discord or Reddit but I can chat here

I don't have a phone right now so I cant do any app with a phone number or give my phone number

Dating and relationships: I’ve never been in a relationship and dated anyone and it's never interested me until recently because since discovering im asexual I've been thinking about more so I’m curious now, I don’t know what they are like and how it works, I would try a romantic relationship before a sexual one and a qpr does sound pretty good and I'm definitely open to one, with marriage I'm kinda open to it but if we click very very well in the future then it might possibly happen and with kids, idk about having any but it could be a possibility but I'll be fine if I never have one

Sexuality: I’m a straight asexual and possibly aromantic, I know for sure I’m asexual but I still need to figure out if I’m aromantic, it’s hard to figure that one out over the internet, I never meet people so that’s another factor, the only attraction I have is aesthetic and that's all I really want tbh

The deed, intimacy and other stuff: I've never experienced any type of intimacy and it doesn't really interest me, im a virgin so I've never done the deed and that doesn't interest and it just seems really weird and dirty to do and i think im repulsed by it but im a very curious person and would want to try it out one day but i don't care if i never do, kissing also seems really weird and dirty to do but i would try it also, that's not a priority also, cuddling seems like the best thing to do and way better than the other stuff but still seems weird to do but hugs and hand holding do sound pretty good and would do that and if there's other stuff i haven't named here i'd be curious to try them, idk what there is though and i know there are aces that do other stuff

what do I want: a relationship but as I said before I doubt a relationship will ever happen but if a relationship does happen I would want someone that is nice, friendly and caring, we play video games together, that is a great way to get to know each other and bond, watch something over discord or another thing if you don't have discord basically nerd out, i don’t really care about looks and I don't have a preference on looks but I really like the hair style bangs, makes women, look very pretty and also a qpr sounds pretty good, my prefered age range for me would be 18-25 but I can go older and if we don't have much in common Ill still be down to talk and learn about new stuff but i do prefer other gamers, i feel like i connect with them more

if we start talking: when we start i cant be the one that always has to start the conversations, i dont mind doing it but after a while it gets annoying, another thing is i cant be the only one that gets to know you, like I say what music you like and you say what you like and then you dont ask what I like then I don't know where to go from there, we both need to get to know each other not just me getting to know you which I want to but its dull when you don't ask me what I like so please contribute to the conversations, i do understand people have trouble talking, i do to but i try my best but if it keeps happening I ghost and that's the only time I ghost

•my social skills are not the best I'm terrible at talking and interacting with people, I'm shy, not good at starting conversations and responding to stuff well but I'm getting better so sorry if the conversations are dull but I can go well with conversations most of the time but I do like talking and I like when people are chatty because that helps me talk more, i can also do voice calls but i am shy at first and I do talk and i like to do voice calls when playing games, video chats are a big no, that seems really uncomfortable and awkward but if in the future if it gets serious then maybe i would, I'm also a good listener and I'm always available to chat and always respond no matter what, unless I'm sleeping of course, idk if that's bad or not and you can ask me almost whatever and if you take a long time to respond or don't respond for a day, couple days, a week, couple of weeks or a month it doesn't bother me

•I would consider myself a nice, friendly, honest, curious and caring person, I’m never mean or rude and I don’t like to be unless there’s a good reason to be, I don’t even swear, I don’t say words that aren’t considered swear words and i don’t do that weird and creepy crap, i don’t get how people can but if i do come off as weird or creepy i don't mean to be so sorry if i am

•I’m an introvert, so I like being inside all the time playing my games and watching TV and anime but I do want to start going out to fun places like conventions, concerts or other places like that and travel to different countries one day, I’ve never done any of it and maybe get out of my comfort zone one day, i wouldn’t go to bars or anything like that because it doesn’t seem fun and I don’t drink and I’ve never been drunk and don’t ever intend to be (though im making an exception for my brothers wedding and that's it, that's the only time i will ever get drunk) i have had alcohol before but that a very long time ago and i did like it but it's been a long time since i had it but i won't have it again, I don’t do drugs and never intend to do that also but I would try Marijuana but only the edible kind, not smoking it and i don't smoke cigarettes also

•I’m a big nerd, i love gaming and anything related to it, i love some fandoms such as star wars, dc, marvel, pokémon, doctor who and i’m starting to get into anime more which has been really cool, im getting into dnd more and its really fun and i loved baldur's gate 3 and that was my introduction to dnd, I used to play magic the gathering a lot but I stopped playing years ago but I loved it and I kind of want to get into it again, i'd be down to get into more fandoms and explore them

I love gaming, it’s what I mostly do and I can talk about it all day and I believe it’s the best way to get know each other and bond more, I play on ps5, I don’t have an Xbox or pc and I did have a switch but it got lost, I like story games, rpgs, open worlds, online games and more, I'm always down to try new games, i also stream on youtube, thegargoylegaming, i don't intended to get big i'm just doing for fun and i don't talk unless someone speaks in the chat and i also play plenty of online games and and as i said before this would be the best way to get to know each other better

I love to watch TV shows, it's what i mostly watch and i'm starting to get into anime and its been great so far but i dont know whats good, I've only watched 5 so far, i don't watch movies and i want to get into them more and i don't have a favourite movie but i really like the star wars movies except for 7, 8 and 9 but i haven't seen the movies in a long time, i also like the httyd movies, spider-man mcu and some other mcu movies and that's it really, i mainly like thrillers, sci fi, fantasy, some dramas and more, maybe we could watch a show or movie over discord!

i love music, i listen to it all the time id be so bored without it, i've never been to a concert but i would love to go to one, one day, i mostly listen to rock, pop and indie but my music taste is all over the place and i listen to anything and recommend me anything

I also like to sing but I'm terrible at it but it's fun

I’m writing a set of books, I’ve wrote 4 but i still need to edit them, I’m writing my 5th book but i'm struggling with it and I’m planning to do 3 more, possibly 4, I also don’t read books so i don’t really know how they are like and plus i’m new to this so i don’t really know what i’m doing but it’s fun, I've got my ideas from tv shows and video games and ive put references here and there

i collect stuff mainly legos which i have a lot of, i used to collect pop vinyls but i lost most of them when i moved and i have some comic books that ive collected but i havent read most of them yet and i guess i count ps4 and ps5 games, i have a lot of them

I will only message if we match

never ask me for money or to buy you anything, i dont do that with anyone even with friends ive known for a very long time, ill only do it if were dating and very close

my birthday is on the 10th of February and if were talking please tell me your birthday so i can wish you a happy birthday when the time comes

I dont ghost but if do ghost its because your not helping with the conversations or not starting any conversations

I have a terrible memory so if I say something I've said before, my apologies

most of the time i dont have explanations for things

if you find me ugly, I don't care, it doesn't bother and tbh I cant tell if im ugly or not so feedback is nice and if we send photos and you find me ugly I don't care but if you ghost me because I'm ugly then was the point of talking

I'm not the best at taking photos of myself

I'm always active here and its great theres an app finally but i cant since my phone isnt working i cant get notifications

if I get ghosted I don't make a big deal out of it, I just accept it and move on, its happened to me a bunch of times so I'm used to it

if i come across as weird and creepy i dont mean to be so sorry if i make you uncomfortable

if you read my profile and made it here I'm surprised, I know its long

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